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Kerry Peresta
May 17, 20203 min read
Non-Seafood People Need Love, Too
There is one thing my husband and friends mock and denigrate me about as if I were the queen of fools. Quite honestly, I’m sick of it. I...
Kerry Peresta
Mar 20, 20202 min read
Life on Hold
I cannot imagine what California and New York are going through. Enforced isolation. Isn’t that a little like, um, prison? I know, I...
Kerry Peresta
Feb 17, 20202 min read
Pinterest and Other Assorted Life Complications
I resisted Pinterest for years. My daughters encouraged me to try it, but I couldn’t see the point. Add another time-waster to my day? I...
Kerry Peresta
Jan 22, 20202 min read
Messes and Milestones
I’ve read and re-read my journal entries for the year, amazed at the messes, encouraged by the forward motion in spite of. Last year’s...
Kerry Peresta
Sep 27, 20192 min read
A Writing Journey
We became good friends, and I thought how cool it would be to write for a living. So eventually, I did. Little did I know 1) how long it...
Kerry Peresta
Apr 16, 20192 min read
I Can’t Hear You, You are Talking Too Much
Most conversations are simply monologues delivered in the presence of a witness. –Margaret Miller Isn’t a conversation a two-way street?...
Kerry Peresta
Mar 4, 20192 min read
KETO Mania
I haven’t had so much fun in years. The counter-intuitive KETO-nutso diet really works, I guess, at least until somebody figures out that...
Kerry Peresta
Jan 23, 20193 min read
Intermission
The phone call from my agent was less a thunderclap and more a gentle spring shower. I’d finished the darn manuscript three years ago,...
Kerry Peresta
Jan 5, 20192 min read
After the Party is Over
Christmas has come and gone, and with it, my balloon-like joy. It popped the minute everyone left my house. Oh, we had lovely memories...
Kerry Peresta
Nov 27, 20182 min read
Ode to Blended Family Holidays
Family gatherings with all their differing perspectives and personalities are often difficult to manage, but throw in a history cluttered...
Kerry Peresta
Oct 25, 20181 min read
The Power of Two Letters
Be it an overloaded calendar, an unruly or inappropriate co-worker, a toxic relationship or activity, an adult child or friend that has...
Kerry Peresta
Oct 9, 20182 min read
Crimestalkers of the Lowcountry
I figured, yeah, I’d be one of about five people there. When I got there at six on the dot, all seats were taken in a room that held...
Kerry Peresta
Sep 22, 20182 min read
Fear is a Liar
First, a change in assigned responsibilities on a new contract, and second; a tense conversation with one of the managers. It was a...
Kerry Peresta
Sep 8, 20182 min read
The Blurry Line
There are only two kinds of people in the end: those who say to God, “Thy will be done,” and those to whom God says, “Your will be done.”...
Kerry Peresta
Aug 15, 20182 min read
Divvying Up
Point of trip: to divvy up the final remnants of my mother’s life. Mom died in 2014 of dementia. It was a whirlwind horror. She’d hidden...
Kerry Peresta
Sep 14, 20133 min read
Going Home Again a Wild Ride
I just returned from spending a week with my eighty-year-old mom. To say it was depressing is an understatement. Imagine a hermit crab...
Kerry Peresta
Aug 18, 20132 min read
The Silver Lining Syndrome
Living as a Christian is a dramatically altered course, and I set my sails at age 27. Over the years I have experienced the excesses of...
Kerry Peresta
Aug 8, 20133 min read
A Friend is just a Friend, but a Cell Phone is Forever
Most of my challenges have to do with self esteem. Think about it. When we are out and about and flitting around like butterflies, there...
Kerry Peresta
Jun 27, 20133 min read
Sometimes Pity Party Yields Actual Party
Never feel self-pity, the most destructive emotion there is. How awful to be caught up in the terrible squirrel cage of self. ~ Millicent...
Kerry Peresta
Jun 13, 20132 min read
Financial Planner No Dummy
Until last night. The ill-fated and much-delayed financial planning meeting left us so stressed we were tearing at each other’s throats...
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